46 - An Interlude on Pleasure and Calling
In the tapestry of our lives, woven with threads of experiences and memories, there is a common thread that binds the most cherished moments together - happy feelings and pleasure. Positive experiences are often rooted in the joy and satisfaction that we derive from the things we love and enjoy. Whether it's the laughter shared with loved ones, the sense of accomplishment after achieving a goal, or the simple pleasures of life, pleasure is an essential aspect that enhances the richness of our existence.
Pleasure itself is not only enjoyable but also serves a greater purpose. It acts as a guide, leading us towards what brings us contentment and fulfillment. When we experience pleasure, we are drawn to repeat those actions or pursuits that invoke such feelings. In this way, pleasure becomes a beacon, illuminating the path towards what truly resonates with our hearts and souls.
It is in this connection that we find the essence of the Fifth Keystone - the edict to Seek and follow your calling in life. Just as positive experiences and memories are steeped in happy feelings and pleasure, our calling lies in discovering and embracing those pursuits that bring us the greatest joy and satisfaction. The Fifth Keystone beckons us to explore our passions and talents, to venture towards what makes our hearts sing, and to heed the whispers of our souls yearning for purpose and meaning. In the pursuit of our calling, we unlock the door to a life infused with passion, purpose, and contentment, creating a symphony of experiences that resonate with our deepest desires.
Now, let's address the natural objection - pleasure seeking behavior might appear to lead to a perpetual dependence on indulgence, a series of unsuccessful relationships, and a weakened body due to laziness. It is true that we often struggle to pursue pleasure in a balanced manner without causing harm. Such failures might lead us to blame pleasure itself. However, the essence of this perspective is to recognize that we might be approaching pleasure in an unskillful and inattentive manner, lacking a clear plan. The aim is to guide ourselves in the right direction, to discover both security and joy, and to embrace pleasure in a way that enriches our lives. Here is an approach that you might try:
Aspire to attain both tranquility and joy. Guided by prudence, seen as the art of thoughtful consideration regarding our choices and rejections, Paraclism guides us to pursue and relish what is essential for tranquility. Moreover, it encourages us to embrace enjoyable indulgences that enhance tranquility without compromising it, while wisely steering clear of anything that disrupts our inner peace.
Direct your attention to the essentials. Although human needs are relatively few, not all are material in nature. Concentrate on what genuinely matters – sustenance, drink, shelter, companionship and community, and the capacity to comprehend the world around you. Avoid investing in desires that prove arduous or even unattainable to fulfill.
Eliminate corrosive cravings. While some argue that there is no such thing as too much wealth, power, or longevity, the desire for perpetual accumulation only leads to perpetual dissatisfaction. The boundless nature of corrosive desires ensures they remain insatiable, urging us to steer clear of their grasp and influence.
Embrace harmless indulgences. Many of us have what we need, but we fail to see it or see it as enough. Are you content with what you have? Do you value it as all you need? Once you are able to reach this level of understanding, you will start to be satisfied. That sense of contentment frees up space and energy to savor the blissful luxuries - those superfluous, delightful surprises - that add vibrancy and richness to our existence.
If you take anything away from this lesson of Paraclism, it should be this: surround yourself with trustworthy and supportive friends, and be deserving of their trust as well. Live joyfully together, sharing both your individual and collective pleasures. When life brings hardships, as it often does, you can rely on the abundance of resources - your supportive friends and cherished memories - to ease your pain and remind you of life's goodness.
And above all, remember to laugh! Embrace philosophy with a joyful heart and enjoy the rest of life's gifts while continuously upholding the principles of effiency and self-sufficiency. Remember: Paraclism and true faith should be a source of delight just as life itself.
